Expect Nothing

Good Morning Readers, Lovers, Family, Friends, Haters, Nosy Whores, Players, Bull Shitters....whatever and whoever you are, I hope I included you.

I am sitting here thinking about a few things. Of course all of my thoughts have a strong set of roots, but that isn't very important right now; plus those of you who really know me, will know exactly where this stems from.

Why do we say that we don't have any expectations, when deep down inside, we really do??

For example, if you are walking to the car door with full hands, and your Partner is there; you expect he/she to open the door for you, right? Or, you decide to "hook up" with someone, as a consenting adult and you later "catch feelings" inspite the agreement to remain platonic and the other party is not interested in your ideas for a relationship. What were you expecting?? Or, if you are in a romantic relationship and one of you works full time, and the other doesn't; the person who works full time, expects that the person at the home will at least maintain it, right? Or, if you and your Significant other are together and one of you needs some coins and are digging thru your pockets for the exact change, you would expect that Person two would offer to provide the change, Right??

Are these simply common courtesy's? Or, do we really expect them?

It is something to think about. I suugest that we really dig deep to find out what we expect in life, and if the situation doesn't allow such...it may be time to try something different. Or we can try to become open mental canvasses so that whatever happens, we are somewhat prepared and not disappointed.

Marinate on that for a bit!

Peace & Blessings Kings and Queens