Her touch gives me chills.
When she looks at me I feel like she is peering into the depths of my soul.
I thought it was gone.
Carefully tucked away in the "do not disturb files".
Then with the slip of the Jack and a hint of the Goose, all these feelings and confessions came loose.
Looking at us fearfully and faithfully not knowing what could or would happen next.
Now I wonder if I should tuck it all away again or if I should be patient to see this through.
I am so afraid. But this love is too strong and there is no turning back.
Quiet you soul. Quiet you mind. Quiet you heart. Be still.
Just be still.
Thursday, August 25, 2011
Sunday, August 14, 2011
Command NOT Demand Attention
There is an art to commanding attention. It doesn't really require very many words. It simply asks for a naturally mysterious and intelligent force of energy that can only be given off by a confident person. I watch so many young women in their need to proverbially vomit on others with an unnecessary amount of meaningless chatter at the most inappropriate times. Of course parallel to this sort of personality are the young women who feel the incessant need to be LOUD; screaming at the top of their lungs all while holding an invisible neon sign up saying: PLEASE LOOK AT ME I NEED ATTENTION. Now most people will probably shake their heads as they read this because they know people who mirror my descriptions. But this type of personality also has a more subtle and quiet cousin. This is the personality which feels the need to be included in EVERYTHING. They will even force themselves into situations which may not have been the best fit for them after all. It is annoying. It is counterproductive and in many cases annoying.
How do such personalities form? If I had the answers I would have a degree in Psychology and a pseudo-perfect life of some sort. We all know that neither of the aforementioned are of the affirmative. But as I spend time with these needy personalities I've learned a few things-
1. Many of them have no clue that they are doing "the most".
2. Something happened to them usually in childhood where they became deficient in normal loving attention to make them feel secure in who they are.
3. They want so desperately to feel loved and included but lack the natural charismatic means to accomplish this.
*sighs*
I don't really know what else to say about this. But I know that there is a way to command the type of attention that so many people seem to need so badly. However the irony of the matter is that once you begin the process of self fulfillment you won't really need such lump sums of attention....but you will get tons of it. Because then you will be the lady with so much depth, or the person that everyone wants to be around, or the girl with so much mystery. You see energy is a real powerful force. And people require the need to share and synergize energy. So when you give off good healthy vibes people will want to be next to you at any costs. You will not have to scream, wear inappropriate clothing, be afraid of silence or force yourself in situations. Your presence will speak for itself.
I challenge you dear Queens to let your prescence speak for itself. Now what your prescence says depends on your track record and levels of inner peace.
How do such personalities form? If I had the answers I would have a degree in Psychology and a pseudo-perfect life of some sort. We all know that neither of the aforementioned are of the affirmative. But as I spend time with these needy personalities I've learned a few things-
1. Many of them have no clue that they are doing "the most".
2. Something happened to them usually in childhood where they became deficient in normal loving attention to make them feel secure in who they are.
3. They want so desperately to feel loved and included but lack the natural charismatic means to accomplish this.
*sighs*
I don't really know what else to say about this. But I know that there is a way to command the type of attention that so many people seem to need so badly. However the irony of the matter is that once you begin the process of self fulfillment you won't really need such lump sums of attention....but you will get tons of it. Because then you will be the lady with so much depth, or the person that everyone wants to be around, or the girl with so much mystery. You see energy is a real powerful force. And people require the need to share and synergize energy. So when you give off good healthy vibes people will want to be next to you at any costs. You will not have to scream, wear inappropriate clothing, be afraid of silence or force yourself in situations. Your presence will speak for itself.
I challenge you dear Queens to let your prescence speak for itself. Now what your prescence says depends on your track record and levels of inner peace.
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